Opening of the eyes

This past Sunday was a pretty special day for the family. For those few of you actually peeking at this blog once in a while, you might remember a post I wrote up in November about our visits to the Chicago Nichiren Buddhist Church. Around September or so of 2008, after about 8 years attending a temple in West Chicago, we started making the journey into the Chicago area instead. A lot of research and examination went into this decision. And it only took a few visits to realize that we had truly found our home. For a little background on that discovery, please read the earlier post.

At any rate, we reached a point as a family where we decided that it was time to actually become members and give up that "guest" status. This decision actually was arrived at sometime in December, but it took nearly 2 more months to make it back to the temple location. January's service was canceled due to extreme cold and the early February make-up date was canceled due to a water pipe issue in the sanctuary. So that brings us to this past Sunday.

The path to membership is actually an easy one. And probably made all that more more so because of the previous years of practice and having already a solid grasp on the teachings of Buddhism. It wasn't like we were thrust into anything altogether new -- just improved! And all it took was a verbal exchange to the priest, Rev. Hosho Higuchi, expressing our wishes.

So on Sunday, we traded in our old Gohonzon and enthusiastically accepted our new Shutei Gohonzon, bestowed on us after an "opening of the eyes" ceremony. The Gohonzon is a calligraphic mandala used by members in their households and they generally are inscribed by Nichiren Shu clergy. The link included here connects to a youtube.com video that displays the remaining undamaged 125 copies of the Gohonzon that Nichiren wrote between 1271 and 1282. Kind of cool. The copy dated the third month of 1280, regarded as the most significant, is now preserved at Myohonji Temple in Kamakura, Japan. The incribed Gohonzon then resides in an altar display at each member's home, where daily practice occurs. Members face the Gohonzon while reciting Lotus Sutra passages and chanting the Odaimoku (Namu Myoho Renge Kyo, or "Adoration to the Scripture of the Lotus of the Perfect Truth").

Anyway... Enough historical background.

In addition to our membership and receiving our Gohonzon, we also participated in the New Year's ceremonies (Setsubun), also postponed earlier due to the weather conditions. The Setsubun ceremony is another important date for Buddhist believers. So it made for a very celebratory day.

Setsubun literally means “seasonal division” but it usually refers to the Spring Setsubun. Close to the Lunar New Year, the Spring Setsubun can be thought of as new year’s eve. Therefore, it has a special ritual of cleansing away all the evil of the former year and drive away disease-bearing evil spirits for the year to come. This ritual is called MAMEMAKI (bean scattering or bean throwing) and it is performed by those who are born on the corresponding year of the Animal Zodiac (2009 is the Year of the Ox /the cycle runs every 12 years). The beans are thrown and people shout out “ONI WA SOTO! FUKU WA UCHI!” (“Demons/Evil Spirits out! Luck/Blessings in!”). It is also customary to eat the beans one for each year of one’s life plus one more for bringing good luck for the year to come.

Because of the length of the morning ceremonies, the "bean throwing" did not take place, else there would have been quite the cleanup effort required afterword!

In addition to these ceremonies, good friends Kent and Daryl (shown below) decided to undergo the eye opening ceremony for their two new statues -- one representing Nichiren and the other Sakyamuni -- that will be placed at their home altar. I've included a photo of the two statues, shown alongside the temple Gohonzon, basking in the incense and good vibe of the ceremony (photo shown above).

Last was the lunch, served downstairs in the lower level under the sanctuary. Every month, members contribute meals, desserts, drinks, saki (!), and good conversation. Many of the meals are served in more of a Japanese style and can be hit-or-miss for someone more discerning, like Su. But this week was a variation of chicken strips, along with rice, egg, some fruit, and even cake! So Su ate very well and really enjoyed herself over the course of the day.

After cleaning up and saying our goodbyes, we drove the nearly 1 hour journey back home and settled in for some quiet time and naps. A very festive day for all -- and a memorable one.

Holy sombrero, Batman! It's...

Sunday morning came with the revelation that Winfield seems to have a new superhero in town. Louder than a speeding locomotive. Able to leap piles of Polly Pockets in a single bound. Armed only with her blanket/cape, sombrero, thundering feet, and booming voice... It's, it's...

Anyone got a name?

Ring in the new year

I know. I know. Nothing has been posted here since just after the holidays. And the last flooding episode. Unfortunately, I offer no real excuse worth beans. It's just been hard to sit down, sort through photos and get this site up to date. Since the new year, work has been a struggle, weather has been a downer, and there seemed very little to report.

In fact, the pix for this particular post are already a couple of weeks old. Not exactly current events!

We just had our annual Chinese New Year bash in West Dundee. Every year, Ron & Wendy -- our most gracious of hosts -- voluntarily agree to take on a household of parents, growing kids, high volumes of noise, and add that to an already active mix of children and dogs currently residing in the home. Every year, Wendy puts together a feast for the eyes, filling the place with the aroma of incredible Chinese food. And every year, about 5-6 families make the journey from various part of Illinois (and sometimes Indiana) to share in these festivities.

As seems to be the case every year, we arrived at the scene first -- and were immediately greeted by 2 lovely little gals, all decked out in their Chinese dresses. With each passing year, these two darlings just keep getting taller -- and prettier. And they made wonderful greeters. Within moments, Su had her shoes off and was rushing off upstairs to what would be an evening of non-stop playing.

Over time, one family after another arrived, until the house was pulsing with noise and thumping with feet. And if you've ever heard Su's feet... well, you know what I'm talking about!

This was an interesting night -- in the fact that it seemed over almost as soon as it began. With all of the socializing, eating, and chasing of little ones, the evening leaped from snacks to dinner to dessert and then soon to home... in what seemed like mere moments. Of course, it really had been 5-6 hours. But perhaps that's the true sign of a great time?

The one surprise in all of this was that Su really didn't eat. In fact, right around dinner time, she was complaining that her stomach hurt. I sat with her a while and sensed she was pretty tired, too. She didn't even want to resume playing OR sample any desserts... so we KNEW something was up. I eventually laid her down on the sofa and within minutes she was fast asleep.

In fact, she didn't so much as budge when kids came storming through the room. She didn't even lift an eyelid when the yelling and screaming were a couple of feet from her. And she wasn't awake when the annual kids photo in the stairway was taking place. At first, we were disappointed that Su wasn't able to be part of this moment. But then a solution to the photo arrived: The kids lined up behind the couch where Su was sleeping! So we had our group photo after all. And Su still didn't wake up.

At least she had several hours of playing in before being overtaken by this little "bug." From what we can tell, it was just some sort of stomach thing, mostly gas. Her stomach was bloated like a basketball. But by morning, she was back to her old self.

Loud.. and thumping through the house.

No bones about it

A photo of Max. And why not?